Desire is a thing that makes you think that what you are doing in your life, the things that you have in your life, are going to help you or hurt you towards anything you are trying to build.
Know! your inclination for “more” or “less is more”, for words. Both saying more and talking less bestows you stability inside out.
What does “soul-searching” accomplishes? Where do you end up with it? It is digging deep and focusing on oneself to lead a contended life.