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#13 Q. REVENGE OR FORGIVENESS #365daysofsoulsearching

This is the another question of the 365 day challenge. After replying to these 365 question on soul-searching you would certainly come out decisive, confident, and much more hopeful with yourself than ever before. And, I will help you to know yourself more every single day for the next 365 days.


What does “soul-searching” accomplishes? Where do you end up with it? It is digging deep and focusing on oneself to lead a contended life. Because, soul-searching could create a visualization of your much achievable future by giving you an insight of what one is today, in the present.

“A situation does not attract any misfortune of life. It’s the way you perceive the solution does.” And, this is where “soul-searching” backs you with.


#13 question
How do you react to the people, who you think hate you?

Know! How conscious you are of people, who may harm your serenity.

“You can’t destroy someone with the same poison they give you. You need to find their weakness, which may be a pinch of salt they are allergic to.”

– Farheen Dhanjal


Has anyone ever said to you that you are not good enough for the job, or you probably deserve less than you believe or are executive from yourself way more than your capabilities? When people harm you or do you wrong you have two choices; forgive them or you could seek revenge to reciprocate the harm they have caused you.

We all have been taught that forgiveness is the more sensible option to seek while dealing with toxic people. But, revenge could be sweet sometimes when giving back to them feels so satisfied for a while. If you always dedicate your pattern to react with “revenge” you would not be less than be a toxic person yourself then. Do you want to be like them?

Revenge is a powerful emotional trigger that mobilises people into action. “It’s this very pervasive experience in human lives, people from every society understand the idea of getting angry and wanting to hurt someone who has harmed you,” says evolutionary psychologist Michael McCullough, of the University of Miami, who has spent over a decade studying revenge and forgiveness.


Each question would consist of 3 parts:
Part 1: QUESTION – It would determine the path of knowing you as an individual.

Part 2: KNOW – It would let you know what you learned about yourself.

Part 3: QUOTE – It would depict the righteous approach to the concept being asked in the question.


You just have to reply to Part 1, and just read, learn and reflect on Part 2 and 3.

Grab a pen & paper and start writing your reply. Remember! Nothing is tough when it comes to doing it for yourself. And, you just need to be truthful to yourself.

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Happy “soul-searching”



I am besides being a self-help writer and podcaster am a lawyer as well. I sense an intense inclination towards the power of words; their placing, usage moreover the power of interpretation they possess in law as well as philosophy. My writings are an outcome of great mind processing, notion understanding, and articulation skills as I write: – Concrete and straightforward, – Therapy and self-help, and – Professional and guidance.

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