#66 Q. How to maintain peace in a relationship? #365daysofsoulsearching

This is another question of the 365-day challenge. After replying to these 365 questions on soul-searching you would certainly come out decisive, confident, and much more hopeful with yourself than ever before. And, I will help you to know yourself more every single day for the next 365 days.

WHAT IS SOUL-SEARCHING?

What does “soul-searching” accomplishes? Where do you end up with it? It is digging deep and focusing on oneself to lead a contented life. Because, soul-searching could create a visualization of your much achievable future by giving you an insight of what one is today, in the present.

“A situation does not attract any misfortune of life. It’s the way you perceive the solution does.” And, this is where “soul-searching” backs you with.

ANSWER THIS #66 QUESTION

#66 question
Which of your relationship grants you peace?

Know! The human face of your emotional and psychological cure.

“The most worthy relation you have is with the person, who brings less mess to your life along with them.”

– Farheen Dhanjal

What grants you peace in a relationship?

Tools to have Peaceful conversation:

#Tool 1: Remember, why you got together in the first place

Remember and try to keep it in your mind doesn’t matter how upset you are with them. I agree! It is hard to do. But sometimes pitty quarrels override the bigger picture.

If you think being with someone has not been less than a war from a reasonable time, now. And, you always try to win the war? But, against whom you are in the war? Think!

Until you choose to lose the battle about winning over an argument you could focus on the actual issue you could win peace overall.

#Tool 2: Be tolerant of a different viewpoint

This seems irritating in the first place.  But, it’s natural that every other person has their perspective, they do see everything differently.

You have to accept the fact that everybody comes from a different background, has been brought up in a different atmosphere, and holds different beliefs and values due to different childhood experiences, teachings and guidance.

Hopefully, you are accepting of them being a different individual at times and overlooking some things that you find hard to get along with most of the time, which could help you lead progressive relationships.

#Tool 3: Repairing is always an option

Literally everybody have conflicts, disturbances, and misunderstandings in their relationships. So, it’s normal to have some.

You need to just follow this:
– work to minimize the gravity of the mishap
– stay engaged in a conversation even if you don’t want to

Consider relationship as a “thing”. And, work for it’s repair by taking some plan in action.

CONTENTS OF THE QUESTION

Each question would consist of 3 parts:
Part 1: QUESTION – It would determine the path of knowing you as an individual.

Part 2: KNOW – It would let you know what you learned about yourself.

Part 3: QUOTE – It would depict the righteous approach to the concept being asked in the question.

HOW TO PRACTICE THIS ACTIVITY?

You just have to reply to Part 1, and just read, learn and reflect on Parts 2 and 3.

Grab a pen & paper and start writing your reply. Remember! Nothing is tough when it comes to doing it for yourself. And, you just need to be truthful to yourself.

Feel free to share.

Happy “soul-searching”

Published by FARHEEN DHANJAL

I am besides being a self-help writer and podcaster am a lawyer as well. I sense an intense inclination towards the power of words; their placing, usage moreover the power of interpretation they possess in law as well as philosophy. My writings are an outcome of great mind processing, notion understanding, and articulation skills as I write: – Concrete and straightforward, – Therapy and self-help, and – Professional and guidance.

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