Like everything else, failure is also part of life. Over evaluating, anything overshadows something worthy. By holding onto your failure you unconsciously invest all of your time and effort in it. Failure is not unworthy, seriously. Failure is a conscious belief of a growth mindset that unconsciously holds you back whenever you lead the path of growth as a person. And, it doesn’t make the essence of failing unworthy because only when you accept your defeat, you can think about looking for better options, opportunities, improvement, leading you to success.
FAIL could even mean Flaw in Aligning the Insight of Lessons.
Why do you need to know the real meaning of “failure”?
There is no need to categorize everything as a success or a failure, but when it is appropriate there is no right or wrong way to define these states. It’s just that some definitions (or lack of) do more harm than good. https://www.forbes.com/sites/carleysime/2019/01/28/can-we-please-redefine-failure-and-success/?sh=19f6ad8d61be
5 aspects of Failing
1. FAILING is a feature of growth
We often misunderstand failure with incapability, lack of focus, lack of acknowledgment accuracy. But, failure is a feature of the path of growth. It may be experienced by everybody or I may say it is experienced by everyone but not everyone accepts it. And, the one with the knowledge of the importance of improvement and learning something new must have experienced it. Because the one who holds the courage to explore oneself despite all the struggles succeeds one day.
2. FAILING is not a shame
Failure does attract doubt on our abilities from the outer world. And, it is inevitable and so should go by you unaffected. Because however, whomsoever points a finger at you, looks down at you, makes you feel small they are never going to matter in the bigger picture of your life until you let the unworthy people let sow the seed of self-doubt in you. The irony is people do demean you even when you succeed but you get affected by it only when you are failing because of feeling ashamed of yourself. It’s you who perceive your failure as your embarrassment.
3. FAILING is a whence to breakthroughs
Feeling cornered in the situation of failure is normal. The sense of being lagged and left alone is even genuine. But, the reality is it’s all in your mind there is nothing like being cornered. Those who make you feel alone in the time of your setback are those who never supported you for your accomplishment, ever. How could someone who never realized your center of attraction could corner you? But, these feelings are not wasted because, in such down-and-out situations, reverse psychology works the best. Feeling lagged in the lows of your life pushes you to the breakthrough, rapidly.
4. FAILING doesn’t kick you out of the game
Failing is not the situation to give up on yourself moreover you should never give up on yourself. Rather, failure is an opportunity that would be and should be led as a leading stone to new opportunities and another alternative option. Life is a game. But, the failure doesn’t fall in your lap like anything. You fail when you act upon something. At least, you realize that you have failed in not meeting your target when you have worked upon something. Stagnation is a neutral mindset issue where whether you succeed or fail doesn’t matter. Failure comes hand in hand with an action plan mindset. And, as long as you are in action and not stagnating you could never be out of the game.
5. FAILING is a free tuition
It is what it is! Until you start perspective things how you wish to instead of how it is. You are at your best when you have got the knowledge to move forward, when you are courageous to upgrade yourself, and when you are prepared for the upcoming challenges. And, you are not at your best ( which you term as failure) when you lack preparation, repeat the wrong steps time and again, curse the situations, refuse to change, and are reluctant to learn the lesson.
Don’t let the self-sabotaging attitude of recognizing failure as your defeat affect all the aspects of your life. ACKNOWLEDGE- ACCEPT- THRIVE
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