You can master no one, no situation, no one’s approach, literally nothing. But, what you can master is yourself; your thought process, your approach, your mindset, your mentality. The one job you are being assigned is to master your life. So, stop understanding why something happens to you and begin to create a worthy reaction to every situation going to happen to you by PRACTICING; Control – MOVE – GIVE
How to Master Yourself
Most of our communication is unconscious. Our conscious brains can only handle something like 40 bits of information a second, while our unconscious minds can handle 11 million bits of information per second. We’ve evolved to push much of our behavior – including much of our communication – down to our unconscious minds because they can handle the chores so much more powerfully and rapidly. What if you could learn to become aware of the important parts of this unconscious mental activity? What if you could control conversations, meetings, and all sorts of interactions among the people around you using conscious awareness of everyone’s unconscious minds, including your own? https://www.forbes.com/sites/nickmorgan/2013/02/28/how-to-master-yourself-your-unconscious-and-the-people-around-you-1/?sh=761595055077
“One can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself.”
-Leonardo da Vinci
3 ways to MASTER YOUR LIFE
1. CONNECT
You are surrounded by many people, it’s a crowd present in your life. But, do you sense the existence of a lot of people in your life? Unfortunately, no.
Here is when presence and existence make a difference. Someone is present for you when they make their presence felt to you. But, someone exists for you when they make your present matter to you. You need more of such people who don’t male your presence extinguish to make them be seen in the world.
Connections are built when you get into basic talk, understanding gestures, respecting boundaries, straightforwardness, watching out for the actions, understanding behavioral change with someone.
2. MOVE
You often believe that you have left a lot of things, those where it serving you worth, productivity, serenity, mindset growth, in the past. Are you seriously unaffected by everything you left behind? You may, or may not!
Moving on is not leaving something or someone being. What does it mean is, to literally mean to move on is to release yourself from whatsoever made you come to a solution to move forward without them.
It’s difficult to decide to ditch something for your mental piece that once served you a worthy life. But, it is much more difficult to keep up with your decision. To successfully move on, keep a follow-up on your mind which wanders back to your past. When you would know how many times you unconsciously went the wrong way you would be able to consciously curb it.
3. GIVE
You must have heard of “giving” lessons in childhood more often than you get to hear now when you are literally in the capacity to give something to someone. What to give? What you got!
The very first question that pops into your mind when someone tells you to be a giver is; “why?”. Because it makes you know what great do you possess and in how much quantity. Not just because it makes you feel humble, generous, and kind.
The perfect reason to be a giver is that compassion is contagious. When you give what you got, you get what you give. Give something to someone that doesn’t make you feel empty on your part and could make the other person fulfilled even. Be effortless in giving; pass a smile, respect someone’s presence, don’t judge, and don’t question someone’s emotions.
"We should every night call ourselves to an account; What infirmity have I mastered today? What passions opposed? What temptation resisted? What virtue acquired? Our vices will abort of themselves if they be brought every day to the shrift." -Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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