All the things that happen to you are not always mean for us. At times you may attract something that doesn’t even exist in the reality. And, this happens when you over-analyze a situation, or when you attach yourself to an unnecessary thought to that deep extent that you start meditating on it and end up feeling immensely difficult to detach yourself from that thought process.
WHAT IS BEING RIGHTEOUS?
Literally speaking – like Websters – righteousness means the quality of being morally right or justifiable. In practice, we would think of someone who is virtuous internally (intentions, thoughts, etc.) and who acts in an upright, integrous way externally (behaviors, words, etc.) as a righteous person. An all-around, genuinely good person. Of course, no one is perfectly righteous, because surely at some point we’ve all harbored a negative thought, cut someone off on the road, or said something we wish we could take back. But you get the idea. https://www.getenrichedquick.com/spiritual-growth/how-to-be-righteous-once-and-for-all
3 TIPS TO CONQUER A WEEK
I. RECOGNIZE YOUR ROLE IN THE GRAND SCHEME OF LIFE
That’s why it’s always good to remember that you suffer more through your thoughts than through something happening to you. If life would give existing minds only what was the need to talk and act. Acting through your mind is beneficial but it’s only beneficial when you have worked on your thoughts to that extent that you could rely upon it blindfolded.
Those who don’t recognize their worth always end up over-evaluating others’ worth. It all begins with “you” still why do you neglect to recognize your worth? You are unique not because you are different. But, because no one can fill in for you in the grand scheme of life. From your mind to your soul, and ideology; you possess these separately because you make it different from everyone else’s mind, soul, and ideology.
Suggestions to recognize your role:
– Put yourself out in the world the way you are.
– Practice what your intentions say to perform.
– Look for the solutions to your problems by yourself.
– Learn more about what you find interest in.
– Don’t let anyone demean you by not letting you claim your position.
II. FORGIVE THEM, RELEASE YOURSELF
Until you hinder the thought of taking out a grudge from someone you would keep on punishing yourself. The best give you could give to the person who mistreated you would be not forgiving, forgetting, and letting go of them. The more you would stay clung to your enemy the more they would be able to exercise their power upon you.
By giving the gift of forgiveness to your enemy you learn you put off the baggage of burden you must have been carrying on your mind for maybe relying upon them, investing yourself in a wrong person, or for just being unharmed and kind to them. Always remember it’s not wrong to trust, help, or show compassion but it’s never right to anyhow invest yourself in the wrong person.
Suggestions to give the gift of forgiveness:
– Shift yourself focus to how to invest in yourself.
– Cleanse your aura by maintaining a healthy distance.
– Be proud of how you stood righteous in the situation.
– Take the experience as a life lesson than a blunder.
– Accept the situation, trust the process, and declutter your grudge.
III. REASSESS YOUR THOUGHT PROCESS
Always trying to be the kind of person, makes your vision blur and you so beyond the righteous limit. As if you trying to learn how to be optimistic you may after a long time could find yourself being a destructive optimistic person than a constructive one. And, if you are trying to learn to build healthy boundaries in relationships with others you can easily find yourself after some time, not letting anyone in your healthy space from where you end up alone in your every trouble.
It’s not everyone’s cup of tea to accept and work for improving oneself. But, the more it is difficult to learn something it is much more difficult to unlearn something. Whenever you intentionally practice anything know the right limit, how much you need to go to catch the target. Keep on reassessing your growth and even the effects of your growth in the bigger picture of your life.
Suggestion to reassess your thought process
– Evaluate, how much you need to improvise and then work accordingly.
– Keep on learning the right way to practice something.
– Never think by doing the right thing, you are right. Your way may be wrong.
– Know the effects of your growth in the long run.
– Change is a choice. Keep choosing growth, not your beliefs.
You are worthy of what you have achieved, accomplished, and fulfilled. Don’t let anyone make you feel small about who you are. But, always keep on growing in the righteous path otherwise you would demean yourself.
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