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#12 Q. WHY NOT TO EXPECT #365daysofsoulsearching

This is the another question of the 365 day challenge. After replying to these 365 question on soul-searching you would certainly come out decisive, confident, and much more hopeful with yourself than ever before. And, I will help you to know yourself more every single day for the next 365 days.


What does “soul-searching” accomplishes? Where do you end up with it? It is digging deep and focusing on oneself to lead a contended life. Because, soul-searching could create a visualization of your much achievable future by giving you an insight of what one is today, in the present.

“A situation does not attract any misfortune of life. It’s the way you perceive the solution does.” And, this is where “soul-searching” backs you with.


#12 question
How long do you hold on to anger when you get disappointed?

Know! From whom do you except what and why?

“No one holds an obligation against your expectations. Fortunately, it releases you from many invalid expectations of others.”

– Farheen Dhanjal


The most selfish one-letter word is “I”. Because “I” actually means you are expecting all the time. You feel like; I should be treated like this, I should love like this, I should be dealt with like this!

Learn to maintain the balance of giving and take. The more we lead a life of “I “, we will always be frustrated. Because no one is obliged to meet our expectations. By expecting you are giving control of how do you feel to someone else. If you are always being a “taker” after a while no one would be wholeheartedly giving to you.

Expectations set up an attachment to specific outcomes, leaving little room for fresh possibilities. However, there are ways you can save yourself from the disappointments that arise from undue expectations.


Each question would consist of 3 parts:
Part 1: QUESTION – It would determine the path of knowing you as an individual.

Part 2: KNOW – It would let you know what you learned about yourself.

Part 3: QUOTE – It would depict the righteous approach to the concept being asked in the question.


You just have to reply to Part 1, and just read, learn and reflect on Part 2 and 3.

Grab a pen & paper and start writing your reply. Remember! Nothing is tough when it comes to doing it for yourself. And, you just need to be truthful to yourself.

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Happy “soul-searching”



I am besides being a self-help writer and podcaster am a lawyer as well. I sense an intense inclination towards the power of words; their placing, usage moreover the power of interpretation they possess in law as well as philosophy. My writings are an outcome of great mind processing, notion understanding, and articulation skills as I write: – Concrete and straightforward, – Therapy and self-help, and – Professional and guidance.

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